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Even though I never practiced any BDSM, I owe much to their philosophy for having guided me to where I am now. Much of their practice is a bit stilted and exaggerated, but it is based on primal desires. These desires and needs all seem to be derived from sadism, masochism, domination, and submission. This may seem to be an over-simplification, but the more I contemplate it, the more it seems to boil down to these elements. Even love itself, as basic as it may seem, appears to have these elements in it. In varying degrees, I think we all incorporate these four elements in our interactions with others.

Almost all of what I know about BDSM is based on what I have read by lurking on the soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm newsgroup. The idea of deliberately enacting fantasies is what really intrigued me about the group. I found the power exchange element particularly appealing.

BDSM seems to be a harmonious blend of some very harsh fantasies enveloped by gentle empathy. Most of these fantasies are enacted in staged scenes after serious planning, agreements, and explicit exchanges of consent.

One particularly odd thing I noticed about some of the scene descriptions is the practice of something called “after care”. Apparently, some scenes cause folk to get extremely emotional and they need to be “brought down” gently. It seems that some of the fantasy enactments become a bit too real for some of the participants. These activities can be very dangerous, both physically and psychologically.

The BDSM lifestyle – or what I have read and understood of it – seemed to be almost what I wanted but somehow missed an indefinable mark. One might compare it to being on the verge of sneezing but not quite being able to attain the relief of finishing it.